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	<description>Oh, I have slipped the surly bonds of earth</description>
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		<title>Required Reading</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 31 Jul 2004 03:31:20 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Chris</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I&#8217;ve known for a long time that, while I&#8217;m not a total hermit, I both need less human contact than other people, and tire of it sooner.  The fact of the matter is, I find forcing myself to conform to others&#8217; expectations of me is exhausting, both physically and mentally, and it leads to [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;ve known for a long time that, while I&#8217;m not a total hermit, I both need less human contact than other people, and tire of it sooner.  The fact of the matter is, I find forcing myself to conform to others&#8217; expectations of me is exhausting, both physically and mentally, and it leads to some of the more antisocial behaviour that I&#8217;ve engaged in in the past.</p>

<p>I&#8217;m thinking, though, that <a href="http://www.amazon.ca/exec/obidos/ASIN/1569245134/qid=1091244370/ref=sr_8_xs_ap_i1_xgl/702-2225080-2583201">this book</a> ought to be required reading for anyone that wants to understand me a bit better, and also for anyone that has a friend that they find to be a bit distant at times, for reasons they don&#8217;t really understand.</p>

<p><em>Party of One</em> has put to words many of the things I see in myself.  Although it&#8217;s not a word-for-word expression of who I am and how I feel about things, it <em>is</em> more accurate than not.  I <em>am</em> a loner, to a large extent.  And although the people in my life enrich it and make it a better place, there are frequent times that I can&#8217;t handle any of them, and I just need to be away from it all.</p>

<p>It&#8217;s a good book, and I hope that someone gets something valuable from reading it.</p>
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